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A forthcoming book by Donna Steffey

Presence Over Prompting

10 facilitator behaviors for the AI era, and a compelling case for why the human side of learning matters more than ever.

The central idea

Content is changing.Connection is not.

Artificial intelligence can create activities, questions, and learning materials in seconds.

But meaningful learning still depends on a facilitator who can sense the room, earn trust, ask the right question, and create the conditions for people to engage honestly. Presence Over Prompting explores the human behaviors that make that possible.

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The heart of the book

Ten ways to bring more humanity into the room.

Not techniques to perform, but behaviors to practice, especially when the room asks more of us.

  • 01

    Be Fully Present

    Offer attention that people can feel.

  • 02

    Model Courage

    Step into the moments that matter.

  • 03

    Earn Trust Consistently

    Build credibility through every choice.

  • 04

    Create Psychological Safety

    Make room for honest participation.

  • 05

    Navigate Conflict Constructively

    Turn tension into forward movement.

  • 06

    Savor the Feast

    Notice and honor what unfolds.

  • 07

    Ask Questions That Deepen Learning

    Invite reflection beyond easy answers.

  • 08

    Cultivate Community Intentionally

    Help people learn with one another.

  • 09

    Read the Room and Adapt

    Respond to what the group needs now.

  • 10

    Build Bridges Across Cultures

    Connect across difference with care.

Ways to engage

Bring the ideas to your people.

From the page to the stage to the workshop room, each experience is designed to turn insight into more human learning.

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The Book

A practical, human-centered guide for facilitators navigating a profession reshaped by AI.

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Keynotes & Conferences

Engaging presentations on the changing facilitator role—and why presence matters more than ever.

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Facilitation Workshops

Interactive experiences that strengthen the human skills behind meaningful learning and connection.

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Organizational Programs

Future opportunities for learning teams, ATD chapters, and conferences to bring the ideas to groups.

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Meet the author

Donna Steffey, MBA, CPTD

An internationally recognized facilitator, author, and leadership development consultant with decades of experience helping people learn, lead, and work more effectively together.

Donna has facilitated learning experiences across industries and cultures. Her work spans facilitation, leadership development, emotional intelligence, and instructional design.

She is also the author of Destination Facilitation: A Travel Guide to Training Around the World, published by ATD Press.

“The human side of facilitation matters more than ever.”
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